Great video! I hate being a 16 year old in this time and age because that really IS all guys think AND talk about. Sucks for me. But because I know that God has a plan for me, plans to prosper me and NOT to harm me, plans to give me hope AND a future (Jeremiah 29:11), I'm not going to throw all of that away by letting some guy use me as a one night stand.
I am 16 years old, and me and my girlfriend have had this talk, and we are not even going close to "Sex"! We ar too young, and we are waiting for the future, when we are both mature and we can do something with out life (not saying we will be together, but we have talked about that too!) What im trying to say is, we aren't going to make a mistake we will regret for the rest of our lives!
Its great that you guys are doing this. A lot of kids believe that christians are just people that beleive that love and dating are always sinful, and that people who participate in them are dirty. But thats not true, and I love seeing people out there proclaiming the truth about it. thanks.
Wow ive been looking for a way to express these thoughts that are in this video and this is wonderful, i am sick of this being the only thing going on in everybody's mind. I feel different from others because these are my ideals (The ones expressed in this video). Thank you.
i m sorry but what kind of site is this i've watched only two videos and thought " This is a terrible site, you shouldn't have sex yes thats true but you do not need a relationship with "GOD" So to speak (if he or some is really up there) to not get horny.." Its still going to happen and you will only feel used or like a user if your having sex with a hooker or your drunk and having a one night stand.. Besides that point, I know that this is a 'religious' site but prove me wrong on this... "Isn't lust one of the seven deadly sins?"
I'm a 12 year old female, and this is not an ok video..
glad you commented, Stephanie! Doug is not saying that you have to have a relationship with God to not be horny... He is making the point that we are all searching for love that won't let us down and it is easy to get caught up in looking for that fulfillment in sex and thinking that sex is love (makes me feel loved/wanted). The only One that can love us UNCONDITIONALLY and never fail is God. It's your choice to have a relationship with Him or not. We're not into religion, we're into Jesus. Thanks again for commenting!
You need to look at the underlying message here Stephanie. The message is, you don't need sex to make your life complete. You can share your feelings, and you can share your love other ways, you do not need sex to show it. Things happen yes, but if you have a plan as one of the others commented above, you will be ready and not be "drunk" as you said, you will be ready for the future and be more mature about it
Kayla1, I too wish I could go back and fix the mistakes I've made that left me used and feeling worthless. As much as people have tried, I don't think we will ever have the chance to time travel, BUT God offers you and I a CLEAN slate, a FRESH start! Jesus died to pay for our mess ups, to wipe them clean. Ask Jesus to forgive you and He will. I am living proof that even though I was soo dirty, Jesus made me clean... even though I was used and worthless, Jesus made me new and taught me how much He values me. When you choose to follow Jesus, that is what happens. Here is one of my favorite things from the Bible: 2 Corinthians 5:17 "if anyone is in Christ, he/she is a New creation; the old has gone and the new has come!"
My sexual life was the first thing I had to give to God before I could give into him. I was so scared and hesitant to do it but looking back, I think the scary thing is I almost went through life without God's plan for my sexuality(and the rest of my life!). whew thank God I made the right choice. God bless you guys
i may only be 14 ama but i do know that god will forgive you no matter what. he loves you forever. u are his child. and the best way to repay god back is accepting him and lving for him.
PLZ ANSWER!!! i know this is embarrassing Q but, is it bad to have sex before marriage? how bad? i mean i believe it's very bad I'm 13. I turned on the TV and there's this pretty Girl and a guy and the girl says " i have a promise to god that i wont have sex till I'm married" and the guy just TURNS AND WALKS AWAY!!!! Most of my friends are like "well if your in love its ok" But if he really LOVES you he'll wait with you. i feel like Im the only one who thinks it's wrong. But if you were stupid and did it would god forgive you? Does he love you more if you don't?
hey victoria im only fifteen but i agree with you on this one if he does love you then he will wait but i think it's also important that he waits not only for you but for God as well!! in the case of the tv...that guy isnt worth her time would she really want to be with someone like that anyways? you are definitely not the only one who thinks it's wrong and you have plenty of time to find a guy who agrees with you so dont worry about that heres the other thing: when you ask for forgiveness and mean it, God always forgives no matter WHAT you did wrong he won't love you any more or less i hope this helps! God bless!
I'm 14 and I hate it how all the kids older or younger than me always make sexual jokes about things and when you say something which is harmless they always make it sound dirty so you can never think about those words the same. When I tell them to stop and try to give my reasoning they always tell me to shut up but when I don't they always pay me out it's freaking stupid!!!
Juliette, I hate that too. It is super uncomfortable and awkward when people do that. I wish I could tell you that they will grow out of it, but it is likely that they won't. My suggestion is to find people to be around that are respectful and don't make you uncomfortable by using sexual jokes. If you are around them when something like you described happens, I would just kindly tell them that you don't appreciate that and walk away. If they are your real friends, they will respect you.
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I am a 15 year old male too, haha.
I'm a 12 year old female, and this is not an ok video..
I too wish I could go back and fix the mistakes I've made that left me used and feeling worthless. As much as people have tried, I don't think we will ever have the chance to time travel, BUT God offers you and I a CLEAN slate, a FRESH start! Jesus died to pay for our mess ups, to wipe them clean. Ask Jesus to forgive you and He will. I am living proof that even though I was soo dirty, Jesus made me clean... even though I was used and worthless, Jesus made me new and taught me how much He values me. When you choose to follow Jesus, that is what happens. Here is one of my favorite things from the Bible: 2 Corinthians 5:17 "if anyone is in Christ, he/she is a New creation; the old has gone and the new has come!"
im only fifteen but i agree with you on this one
if he does love you then he will wait
but i think it's also important that he waits not only for you
but for God as well!!
in the case of the tv...that guy isnt worth her time
would she really want to be with someone like that anyways?
you are definitely not the only one who thinks it's wrong
and you have plenty of time to find a guy who agrees with you so dont worry about that
heres the other thing: when you ask for forgiveness and mean it, God always forgives no matter WHAT you did wrong
he won't love you any more or less
i hope this helps! God bless!
Praying for you!
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